Mistress
Of Love
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Who Do We Make New Year
Promises For?
Each year we make promises and never keep
them. We are going to be rich, lose weight, find love get
married, have a baby, buy a house and the list goes on and on.
But if you think back to last year can you really remember what
you said you were going to change or accomplish? I didn't
think so.
Let's
take time and reflect on this New Year, do we make the same
empty promises again. Have you ever wondered why we make
these resolutions every year? Is it because society tells us we
should and instead of thinking on our own we smile and boast of
all the wonderful changes we are going to make? Or are we trying
to impress that special man. We sit and tell him all the
things we are about to make happen for our selves in the
wonderful ' 09 but did we take care of all the things that
prevented us from doing them last year? If we didn't we
just lied to ourselves and all those who listened. You are
probably saying to yourself "she has done that same thing so
many times before" and you are right. How do you think I
could say such things?
I make
myself sick with all the changes I am going to make every year
and they never materialize in the manner I want them to.
Trust me, some of them come true but only because I have make
changes. I had to really think about it and realize that changes
are a life long process not just one year at a time.
Because we never finish the year out with our whatevers.
I'll
tell you about me and my past resolutions. Well, I am always
losing weight and lose some gain some then I realized STOP
this!!!! I f you want to lose you will, it doesn't have to be
the beginning of a year to do it. If you want to do something do
it because you love yourself that much. Not because of what
someone else say's. Funny how we hate people to tell us what to
do and yet each year we fall into the same trap and never move
an inch toward our goal.
The
lesson I have learned is to take time each day to work toward my
goals in life. We can all see the small steps we make and
with each one it helps us to keep going. Finish one and
start the other. Keep control of your own life and never
let go, sometimes one has to be selfish in making ourselves
better, it can sometime be the only way to help others.
As you
can see I really don't have a lot to say except, please take
control of your life and be true to yourself all the time!
Wishing
you a great NEW Year!
The
Mistress Of Love!
caramale11@gmail.com
